Francine Diaz got the chance to sit down with Bea Alonzo and soak up as much love advice from the veteran actress!
In her YouTube vlog uploaded on July 9, Francine asked the “One More Chance” star what her top relationship advice would be for young people.
“Just keep it real and take it easy. Don't play games. Para sa akin, I don't like that. Kasi ‘pag nagpahabol ka tapos gustong-gusto mo naman 'yung tao, you may send a different message dun sa tao na baka hindi mo siya gusto. Or parang hindi mo nirerespeto pagkatao niya. Not because gusto ko niya ibig sabihin meron ka nang karapatang i-disrespect ‘yung tao,” she explained.
Based on her own experience, Bea said that a person shouldn’t lose their self-respect in the process of loving someone.
“But also, have respect for yourself. That's what I lost before. I have learned from that experience. You always have to set your boundaries kung saan ka na hindi nirerespeto. At kailangan lagi mong kilala 'yung sarili mo at may tinitira ka sa sarili mo kapag nagmamahal ka,” she stressed.
Revealing that she first had a boyfriend when she was 19 years old, Bea extended another piece of advice to the youth when it comes to dealing with peer pressure.
“Don’t get pressured by society… There will come a time na darating din 'yung tao na para sa 'yo na gugustuhin ka at ilalagay ka sa pedestal,” she told Francine.
When Francine brought up the topic of “ghosting,” Bea was quick to disclose her opinion on the matter.
“Mali ‘yun. Mali talaga ‘yun. Masakit ‘yun. Be man or woman enough to at least break up. Alam mo ‘yun, to say goodbye. Kasi sana nirerespeto mo rin ‘yung tao kapag iniiwan mo. 'Yun lang naman 'yun. Bigyan mo ng respeto ‘yung relasyon ninyo,” she said.
“Respeto lang. Pwede namang hindi mo na mahal or nakakita ka na nang ibang mamahalin, pero be brave enough to say goodbye,” she added.
Watch the full vlog below:
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