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Carla Abellana breaks silence on split with Tom Rodriguez: 'I was betrayed. I was lied to. I was used'

Carla shares what she allegedly went through with Tom for 7 years: "Bawal magalit, magtampo, masaktan, mabigo, malungkot, madismaya, dahil hindi po pwede"

Patricia Matalog
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Patricia Matalog

6/16/2022 in News
Carla Abellana breaks silence on split with Tom Rodriguez: 'I was betrayed. I was lied to. I was used'

Carla Abellana finally broke her silence on her separation from husband Tom Rodriguez, amidst rumors that they are already in the process of filing for annulment.

After months of keeping mum about their marital issues, the actress has had enough and released a lengthy statement in response to a netizen who left a distasteful comment in one of her YouTube vlogs.

The exact comment reads: “And my comment was removed. Bakit? Takot ka mabasa na hypocrite ka. ‘Wag ka magbait-baitan kasi hindi ka mabait," to which Carla replied with, "Ayaw ko lang po ng negativity."

Another netizen then pointed out Carla's behavior of liking posts alluding to Tom being a cheater in another comment. "Ayaw [mo ng] negativity, sana ‘di ka na lang nag-like sa mga [negative] comments kay Tom," the netizen wrote.

The actress then admitted to her deed of liking some posts, but stressed that she did not continue doing it. 

"Opo, nag-like po ako, pero 'yun lang po ang ginawa ko. Hindi ko na po 'yun inulit. Nag-like po ako, pero hindi ko po ginawa ng paulit-ulit at ng matagal. Ang taong lubos na nasaktan, hirap pong pigilang hindi ilabas ang galit sa anumang paraan," she began her lengthy post.

At this point, Carla went on to detail the things she went through with her husband.

"I was disrespected. I was betrayed. I was lied to. I was used. I was shamed. I was made to look so stupid. Kung sana hanggang dun lang po, makakabangon din po ako balang araw. Pero para gawan pa po ako at ang pamilya ko ng mas marami pang kasamaan at kataksilan sa mga sumunod na araw, linggo, at buwan, sobra sa sobra na po ang sakit at pagdurog ng puso at pagkatao ko," she said.

Carla also pointed out the things she did and endured for Tom for the past 7 years.

"Wala po akong ibinigay kay Tom kundi tunay na pagmamahal, respeto, pag-aalaga, pag-aaruga, pag-unawa, pagtitiis, sangkatutak na pagpapatawad, milya-milyang pasensya, paniniwala, pagtitiwala, pag-aasikaso, pagprotekta, lahat-lahat na. Binigay ko po buong buhay ko sa kanya. 7 na taon po akong bawal magalit, magtampo, masaktan, mabigo, malungkot, madismaya dahil hindi po pwede. Makakatikim po ako kahit subukan ko pong ipaliwanag sa kanya na nasasaktan niya ako at hindi po tama ang mga ginagawa niya," she added, hinting at her husband physically hurting her.

"Paulit-ulit ko pong pinapaalala sa kanya na hindi po ako kalaban at mabuti po ang kalooban at intensyon ko," she continued. "7 na taon pong naipon sa loob ko lahat 'yun. Gustuhin at kailangan ko man pong ilabas, lubos na nakakakatakot po. Ilang beses ko po siyang hinikayat na magpatingin, magpagamot, at magpagaling dahil 'yun din po ang gumana sa akin. Pero wala pa rin po."

Even with all that happened, the actress said she accepted her husband wholeheartedly and even vowed to love and care for him when they tied the knot. Carla also shared how she fought for him for 7 years.

"Sa dami po ng binigay ko kay Tom, wala na pong natira sa 'kin. Galit, pride, at ego ko, siya na rin po ang kumuha sa 'kin at hinayaan ko naman pong kunin din po niya. Pinaglaban ko po siya ng lagpas sa 7 na taon," she said.

"Kahit po kung tutuusin, wala pa po 'yung pag-like sa iilang comments na 'yun kumpara po sa nagawa niya sa akin at sa aming lahat, at sa lahat-lahat pa po ng ginawa niya at ginagawa niya. Sa lala po ng sakit, pambabastos, panloloko, pandudurog, paninira, panggagamit at pagtataksil po niya, mga tinago niya, napakadali pong ibalik sa kanya sa paraan ng pagganti. Pero hindi po ako ganun. Hindi po ako bobo. Hindi po ako lalaban kahit tapak-tapakan na po ako ng husto. Hindi po ako mababaw," she said.

Carla then ended her post by making it clear that she's not a bad person and what people see on camera is just the tip of the iceberg.

"Hindi po ako masamang tao. Kung ano po ang nakikita, naririnig, at nababasa ninyo online ay kakarampot lang po ng hindi po ninyo nakikita, naririnig, at nababasa kapag wala pong kahit anong camerang naka-record," she said. "Kapag sarado na po ang pinto sa pamamahay po namin at wala na pong ibang nakakakita. Hindi po ako masamang tao tulad ng sinasabi, nararamdaman, naririnig, at nakikita po ninyo online, sa TV, etc… Pinalaki po ako ng nanay at lola ko na marunong rumespeto, umunawa, magmahal, magpatawad, magpasalamat, magpakumbaba, at higit sa lahat may takot po siya Diyos," she maintained.

Carla and Tom tied the knot in October last year after 7 years of dating. 

Breakup speculations surfaced when Tom posted a cryptic post last February, followed by Carla's father, Rey "PJ" Abellana's statement revealing that the couple are having marital problems.

Earlier this month, Tom posted yet another cryptic photo on Instagram Stories which fueled annulment rumors between the two.

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