Cheating exists, not because the partner lacks anything. It exists because there are cheaters.
This is what sexy actress Sunshine Guimary had to learn the hard way. She’s what everybody would define as beautiful and you’d think any man would feel lucky to have her as his girlfriend, but no. Even a woman like Sunshine gets cheated on too.
In an exclusive interview with PEP, the star of the upcoming film “Kaka” recalled how she caught her ex-boyfriend cheating not a year ago.
She began, “Sa experience ko, hindi totoo na kahit gaano ka pa kaganda, ka-fresh, maligo ka pa every day, kung ‘yung partner mo may sakit talaga, sakit niya talaga iyan. Ewan ko lang, ha, ‘yung true love, as in super, super true love, hindi ko pa 'yan na-experience. ‘Yung parang ako lang ‘yung true love, ako sa kanya hindi. Hindi ko pa na-experience ‘yung pareho kayong baliw sa isa't isa.”
She remembered that on the day she caught him in the act, she went out with her helper to get soft drinks. On their way to the store, that’s when she saw him in the car with another woman.
“Naka-motor kami. Sabi ng helper ko, 'Ate, di ba, sasakyan ni Kuya ‘yun?' Kinakabahan ako kasi, ang sabi niya, pupunta siya sa burol ng mama niya. Bakit parang opposite ‘yung direction ng ruta ng tao na ito?” Sunshine recounted.
She continued, “To the point na kinonfirm ko plate number. 'Ay, tama!' Tapos nung papunta na ako sa sasakyan, may babaeng bumaba.”
Sunshine walked up to them and asked her ex to go home with her and talk. But he only denied doing anything wrong.
“Sabi ko, 'Uwi. Usap tayo sa bahay.' Ang location [kung nasaan kami] may nakakilala talaga sa akin. Hindi puwedeng mag-eskandalo and hindi rin ako maeskandalo. So, siyempre, nakita na, de-deny pa rin! Pinagmumukha ka pa ring tanga,” she said.
“Sabi ko, 'Ang ganda ng friend. Bata.' Walang valid excuse. ‘Yun talaga, nanginginig na siya. Yung mata, namumula na. Alam na alam mo nagbibigay lang siya ng excuse.” She added, “’Yun na. Nanginginig na rin ako. Parang, 'Sarap sabunutan nito.' Kaya yun.’”
Because of what happened, the 26-year-old now believes that if a partner is cheating on you, it’s best if you don’t see it happen right before your eyes.
“Ito natutunan ko, alam niyo, mas mabuting huwag niyo makita. ‘Pag nakita niyo, dyusko, isusumpa mo buhay mo! Huwag na lang,” she said. “’Pag napi-feel mo na nagche-cheat, tapos may something sa text, ok na siguro ‘yung sa text. Pero yung aktuwal na makikita mo sa mata mo... Madumi ‘yung isip mo ‘pag natutulog ka na. Kasi nakikita mo sila. Mavi-visualize mo ‘pag pikit ng mata mo.”
Sunshine had gotten so devastated after this heartbreak, that she couldn’t help but break down to tears every night.
"As in lahat ng gusto niya, sunud-sunuran talaga ako. Kasi feeling ko, forever na, may future kayo. Gabi-gabi ako umiiyak. Lugmok talaga. Antaas ng tiwala mo. Tapos biglang hindi ka makapaniwala. As in drop talaga,” said Sunshine.
But in the interview, she declared that she has learned her lesson, moved on, and is now just focusing on herself.
“Kaka” also stars Ion Perez, Jackie Gonzaga, Jerald Napoles, Juliana Parizkova Segovia, Maui Taylor, Rosanna Roces, and veteran actress Gina Pareño. It is now streaming on KTX.PH, IWantTFC, and TFC IPTV!
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