I guess it’s lack of time and trust…
When trust fades, I guess love fades.
When you don’t give much time and when you don’t get to talk to each other casually or kahit seryosong usapan, ‘pag nawala ‘yun, siyempre ‘yung partner mayroong tukso na mapupunta diyan eh, na ‘yung attention niya mapupunta na doon kasi itong particular na tao na ‘to that he or she is looking for.
Basta pagka nawala ‘yung first reason kung bakit kayo nagka-in love-an, ‘yun din ‘yung magiging dahilan kung bakit kayo nag-fall out of love at mag-cheat.
There’s always pain. You’re hurt, you’re in pain.
I-strengthen mo ‘yung faith mo. Eventually forgiveness and acceptance will come, pero nurture yourself. Give time for yourself.
Understand and listen to your heart, what you really need and what you really want.
At this day and age, ‘yung pagrerebelde, hindi na siya millennial thing to do. One way or another babalikan ka ng pagrerebelde mong ‘yan, makakarma ka rin.
Hayaan mo na lang ‘yung karma dumating doon sa nanloko at nang-iwan sa’yo.
Yes, it’s always easier said than done, ‘yung forgive and forget. Ako I do forgive, but I never forget. May gano’n akong saltik sa puso ko. Papatawaran kita, pero hinding-hindi ko makakalimutan ‘yung ginawa mo.
But you know, sa lahat ng nangyari sa’yo, you make it to a point na you find something good from what happened.
I always believe na everything happens for a reason. Hindi siya ibibigay sa’yo ni Lord kung hindi mo kaya. Kaya mo siya and it’ll just make you a better person. Just make sure that it will make you a better person.
The best rebellion always is the better version of yourself.
-Judy Ann Santos as told to Star Cinema digital team